Lies Keep You Single

You’re going to find that most people are stuck in destructive ideologies.

Are you enthralled in one?

              It happens.

              You get out of, resist, and defeat these totalitarian ideologies by telling the truth.

              You tell the truth, and reject the lies.

              If your totalitarian ideology is telling you that you can act casually and sleep around until you’re 35 and then suddenly be the kind of person that qualifies for a good marriage and kids, you’re accepting a lie. This is because we know this doesn’t work.

              Is a man, at age 35, with no good job, and no skills other than playing video games and expertly rummaging through pornography make a good husband?

              Is a woman, at age 35, who has not developed the skills to have a stable relationship because she hung around temporary men for the last 17 years make a good wife?

              No to both.

              You’ve been Peter Pan your whole life and don’t have the skills to have a good marriage, let alone, raise kids well.

              But, if you’re young enough, especially for women because of biology, and you turn around and face the truth and not lie to yourself, you’ll give yourself a chance to get your life together.

              And when you get your life together you will give yourself the opportunity to be the kind of person that the kind of spouse you want would want.

              It’s not a guarantee because maybe you’ve really messed up. Fair enough. But not doing this guarantees that you’ll never have that life.

              And when you become the kind of spouse that the spouse you want would want, which means confronting a lot of terrible things about yourself, it’s like making your bed. It’s giving chaos, order.

              This then qualifies you to then put the outer world in order. And by the rest of the world, I mean your relationship you’re going to be in.

              This is why we know that single women should not ask their single female friends for relationship advice. It’s not only that women are pretty evil to each other and don’t like to see each other win, (See every Housewives of Wherever), but that these single women do not have their life in order to qualify to help you with you trying to get your life in order when it comes to relationships. They are living a lie and will drag you into the depths of their problems with them.

              You don’t ask someone who doesn’t know how to put on makeup, how to color match.

              Don’t lie, and face the problems. Then you win your life.

              Ready to go win your life?

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