Beliefs that Keep You Single – Conqueror vs Contender - Part 2

Single Person Belief: Every hardship in the relationship is the evil doing of the other’s power over you so the only thing to learn is how to conquer your oppressor.

Let’s take this from the perspective of a woman.

You see your man as bad because you believe in the patriarchy. Fair enough, let’s take this idea fairly and continue the thoughts.

But, you’re married to one. That’s problematic.

But when the relationship is good, it’s good. You can build and do things together.

But, inevitably, it will get bad. Some conflict will come up. Now, if your core belief is that all men are evil due to patriarchy, you have no choice but to see him as your oppressor, as to keep your belief consistent.

And if he is your oppressor, you need to defeat him in every argument.

You must win every argument to be safe.

The problem with winning arguments in relationships is that is sows’ distrust, resentment, and hate.

So over and over again, relationships don’t last, divorce happens, and this belief keeps you single.

Now, you need to learn how to be a Loving Contender so you no longer continue to be a lonely conqueror.

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