Beliefs that Keep You Single – Power vs Love - Part 1

There is no love because everything is about power.

You’ve always been told that whoever you get into a relationship is ultimately looking to hurt you.

Women are all gold digging, hypergamic, narcissist who will enter a relationship because of your finances and will leave with more than half of them when they’re bored of you.

Men are all oppressive, patriarchal, controllers who want you to do what they want and only what they want.

This is true too often. There are men and women who do not qualify for a relationship because they are abusive. Fair enough.

But, if you’re a man or woman who holds these beliefs to only be true, then you’re always going to be single, or in a dissatisfactory relationship at best.

As a woman, if you believe that all men are evil, then why would a man marry you? Why would he trust you to have his son and hate the son? Why would he trust you to have his daughter and teach the daughter to hate him?

As a man, if you believe that all women are evil, then why would a woman marry you? Why would she trust you with her life and future if she knows you will always disrespect her due to your perception of her frigid nature?

These post-modernist people do get together and they’re consistently miserable.

If you have any of these beliefs, they will keep you single because anyone who is healthy enough for a relationship and understands the risks, and can discriminate between a post-modern potential spouse and an Enlightenment potential spouse, will immediately ignore you.

That’s where all the good men and women have gone and this is why this belief keeps you single.

Now we need the opposite belief, without being naïve to the evils of others, to find a loving relationship.

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