Beliefs that Keep You Single – Fear vs Growth - Part 3

You cannot be wrong and your partner needs to learn “your truth” which is to satisfy you in the relationship, so you don’t feel any pain.

There are a few beliefs within this belief we would need to face, but let’s face the understanding that to say the statement “my truth” is a statement that is willfully neglecting reality, for self-gain, which is a defense of fear and is anti-growth.

Imagine you’re in a relationship and your spouse cheats on you. You tell them that it has destroyed you that they have cheated on you. They tell you that it’s “Their Truth” that the cheating was actually your fault because you didn’t give them enough attention, so they were lonely, so it is your fault that they cheated.

The cheater is saying this out of fear because those who state the “my truth” idea are bitterly afraid of the horrible things they can do. And instead of facing the horrible things they do and working towards never doing those things (growth) they act them out, they don’t take accountability, and blame others.

This belief will destroy your life and keep you single.

Now we need the opposite belief, the belief of the need of courage to grow even if we must face something about us that we do not like, to find a loving relationship.

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